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Children Growing Up Without Love: Lost Colors and a Light of Hope

  • Şeymanur ERTÜRK
  • Mar 18
  • 3 min read


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When a child opens his eyes to the world, he wants to feel love. He wants to be hugged and wrapped, to grow up with a warm touch. However, some children are deprived of this affection. The cold winds of loneliness shake their souls, their hearts become silent, their eyes absent. A child who grows up without love fights to live without extinguishing the light within him. In this article, we will touch the inner world of children deprived of love and discover how to give hope to their fragile souls.


Growing Up in the Shadow of Lovelessness: Children Growing Up Without Love


A heart that is not kneaded with love is tossed around like a fragile branch. When a little child does not feel the warmth of his parents, he turns the world inside him into a silent winter. Every hug that is left undone, every kind word, diminishes the love he feels for himself. Rooms that should once have been filled with laughter are filled with the hum of silence.

Children who do not receive love and grow up without love grow up in shadows. Their self-belief decreases, their trust in the world is shaken. They have difficulty connecting with people, they build walls in their hearts. So much so that even if someone wants to infiltrate one day, these walls will block them. They have difficulty empathizing, feeling worthy of being loved. However, the slightest interest can create cracks in those petrified walls.

The absence of love sometimes turns into a silent scream, and sometimes it creates storms inside. Some people bury this deficiency inside and become silent, while others embrace anger and start a rebellion against life. They can sometimes take wrong paths to fill the void inside them, and they grow up bearing the marks of lovelessness.


The Touch of Compassion: Healing Lovelessness


Lack of love should not be the fate of a child. What can bring them out of this coldness that surrounds them is a smile, a sincere interest, a sincere touch. Parents should not hesitate to show their love, they should knead their children's hearts with compassion. Looking into a child's eyes with love, being able to tell them "you are precious" can make a big difference in their life.

Expert support is also of great importance in healing the wounds of lovelessness. Children's inner worlds can be touched with play therapy, and fears and insecurities can be overcome with cognitive behavioral therapy. Schools should be a haven for children, and teachers should shed a ray of hope on lonely souls. Every moment when they are approached with love can thaw frozen hearts.


The most beautiful melody in the world is the laughter of a child who grows up with love. When a child feels loved, the world becomes more meaningful to him. Love is the greatest source of inspiration and every child has the right to experience it to the fullest. It is the responsibility of all of us to offer them love, to be their hope, and to heal their wounds.


When a child grows up without love, the colors inside him/her begin to fade. But love is like an elixir that repairs everything. Although it is difficult to make up for the love that was lost in time, it is not impossible. When compassion is planted in hearts, the wounds of the past heal, and children step into a world full of hope again. Love is a child's greatest right, and giving them this right is one of humanity's most sacred duties.


 
 

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